A New Normal

Our new normal looks a whole lot different than our 3 weeks ago normal. But honestly, it's the best normal we've ever known.  Thank you Lord for this glorious gift. 


Malakiya Jay- Birth Story

I'm glad Neil made it to the room in time, I'm glad I listened to my heart and went in Friday morning, I'm glad they were operating when her heart beat dropped out so they could get to her ASAP, I am just truly thankful. She's perfect. And we are so in love.

Do’s and Don’ts When Talking To Pregnant Women and What You Should Say Instead

As people commented on my FB and IG posts things that have been said to them, my heart sank for a lot of these women. Pregnancy is an incredible time in your life. Some people love it, and others really don't. Adopting is a hard process and so rewarding. Fostering takes your whole heart and soul and strength.  PLEASE, friends, be careful what you say to us new moms of all kinds! 

Everett’s Birth Story (Part 1)

One of the best notes that I had read was to really take time to enjoy the moments between the contractions. I thought about celebrating their birthday a year from then and how excited I was to plan the party. I thought about seeing their little face and holding them for the first time. I thought about all of the women around the world birthing with me at the same time and how incredible it was to be a part of the circle of life. Although the pain was intense when I was contracting it was just such a beautiful thing to be able to experience.